“May all beings have happiness…” | Buddhist Quote


“May all beings have happiness and the causes of happiness

May all beings be free from suffering and the causes of suffering

May all beings never be parted from freedom’s true joy

May all beings dwell in equanimity free from attachment and aversion.”

– traditional Buddhist prayer.

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Three Trick Questions | Language the “Universal Whore” (Erica Jong)

 Trick Questions | Language the “Universal Whore” (Erica Jong)

A Pulitzer-winning reporter is writing an in-depth piece – about you. What are the three questions you really hope she doesn’t ask you?

This prompt assumes there is good reason for a Pulitzer-winning reporter to write an in-depth piece about me. Therefore, the assumption is I have somehow received notice and review. I will assume that I have published best-selling books that have received positive reviews and press notice. Given this assumption, the reporter will probably not have had time to actually read my latest book. In this way I will manipulate the questions, by providing her with a pre-list of questions, (tip from Publicity Hound). I would also have included the usual head shot images, together with environmental shots of me in various settings, manipulating the image I wish to project. I have had experience of reporters twisting what I have said, so I will think carefully about how to direct the interview.

I will preempt the possibility of trick questions by asking questions I wish to answer, such as:

“What really matters to me is ______”

“The real issues are ______ ”

“The more interesting question is ______ ”

The answers to these questions will have been well-thought out. In much the same way as I take control of a meeting, a training event, or a project interview, I will take control of this interview.

However, a journalistic trick is to ask a stinker at the end, just as the interview is wrapping up. Something like:

“Let’s catch up again this time next year – if you still think you will have written anything significant by then?”

To which I may answer something like:

“You know what, who knows, I may be living in my PJ’s and nothing may have happened. My goal is to fully live, if this includes significant writing, well then. In the words of Erica Jong, (“in Seducing the Demon”), if I am a writer then maybe I will become:

 ‘…someone who takes the universal whore of language and turns her into a virgin again.’

Who knows if my ‘alchemical’ ability will emerge?”


Break the Silence | “Our Lives are not Our Own” (Sonmi)


Break the Silence #DailyPrompt

When was the last time you really wanted (or needed) to say something, but kept quiet? Write a post about what you should’ve said.

Speak! Bring out the unspoken. Make it real. Put it on the table. Look at it! Hear, see, feel it. Unsheath the sword. Look into my eyes, make a connection. This is me, this is you.

“…focused within the confines of the felt presence of experience” ~ Terence McKenna

Look to this moment, tomorrow is not yet, yesterday a mirage. Break the chains of the icy tomb of silence. Speak!

In the words of: Sonmi-451:

“Our lives are not our own. From womb to tomb, we are bound to others. Past and present. And by each crime and every kindness, we birth our future.” Cloud Atlas.

What is your crime, what is your kindness? How are you bound to others? Speak! Birth your future.

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The Last Thing I Ever Say


Do you think it is possible to grow into the following recounting by Benjamin Zander, of the words of an Auschwitz survivor, she said that she vowed:

“I will never say anything that couldn’t stand as the last thing I ever say”?

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